Can ex rivals ever be real friends?

2face and Annie Idibia                                                                            Sunmbo Ajaba and 2face Idibia. They have two boys together                       

 

Can two women who at a time shared one man and have children by him, ever be real friends?  I'm talking about being friends, remembering birthdays, hollering at each other on Twitter etc. You read their tweets, and you're like, WTH???

 

 Is this a sign of maturity between two women who have buried the hatchet or just oju aye, as in eye service? If the former is the case, then this behaviour should really be encouraged, if not, then...

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