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Should I Let My Nanny Bring Her Child to Work With Her?

As more and more nannies are becoming mothers themselves, more and more employers are faced with the question of whether they should allow their nanny to bring her own child to work with her. It’s a loaded question, and there’s not one right answer. It depends on the employers, the nanny and the overall situation. Here are some questions to ask yourself when making this decision.

 Am I comfortable with my child sharing the time, energy and attention of the nanny? Some parents hire a nanny especially because they want their child to have undivided one on one attention throughout the day. If that’s one of your big motivations for hiring a nanny, having her bring her own child to work probably won’t work out. However, if you don’t mind the idea of your child taking turns, having to wait a few minutes to have his non-emergency needs met, or sharing the spotlight with another child, the arrangement may be a good choice for you.

Do I trust that my nanny will not favor her child over mine? Some parents worry that when a nanny brings her own child to work, their child will continually get the short end of the stick. If you’re hiring a new nanny, it’s hard to squelch this fear because you don’t know the nanny well. The only way to get past it is for you to honestly share your fears and to openly listen to her responses. Once you’ve had that discussion, you can make a much more informed decision.